Comments on: The Day I Lost My Dad, My Inheritance, And My Baby… http://www.RisingIMStar.com/mindset/the-day-i-lost-my-dad-my-inheritance-and-my-baby/ The Internet Marketing Technical Coach Series Tue, 06 Jan 2009 21:35:44 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.2 By: Edna http://www.RisingIMStar.com/mindset/the-day-i-lost-my-dad-my-inheritance-and-my-baby/#comment-4565 Edna Mon, 13 Oct 2008 06:20:59 +0000 http://www.RisingIMStar.com/mindset/the-day-i-lost-my-dad-my-inheritance-and-my-baby/#comment-4565 Hi Ming Chern So so sorry to learn about this. Thanks for sharing. Time will heal all wounds I believe, all the best and cheers to a better tomorrow. Hi Ming Chern

So so sorry to learn about this. Thanks for sharing. Time will heal all wounds I believe, all the best and cheers to a better tomorrow.

]]> By: Dominic Tay http://www.RisingIMStar.com/mindset/the-day-i-lost-my-dad-my-inheritance-and-my-baby/#comment-4563 Dominic Tay Fri, 10 Oct 2008 04:52:17 +0000 http://www.RisingIMStar.com/mindset/the-day-i-lost-my-dad-my-inheritance-and-my-baby/#comment-4563 MC, I'm glad you've taken such situations and turned it around. I'm sure you can do it. Let's work together for our future. Whoosh! MC, I’m glad you’ve taken such situations and turned it around. I’m sure you can do it. Let’s work together for our future. Whoosh!

]]> By: kaixinbear http://www.RisingIMStar.com/mindset/the-day-i-lost-my-dad-my-inheritance-and-my-baby/#comment-4552 kaixinbear Sun, 05 Oct 2008 15:06:41 +0000 http://www.RisingIMStar.com/mindset/the-day-i-lost-my-dad-my-inheritance-and-my-baby/#comment-4552 Dear Ming Chern, I finally realised why I was not able to touch base with you. No wonder the email I sent to you did not get answered. So sorry for the turn of events. I salute you for taking the decision to spend more time with your family. Take care. Dear Ming Chern,

I finally realised why I was not able to touch base with you. No wonder the email I sent to you did not get answered.

So sorry for the turn of events.

I salute you for taking the decision to spend more time with your family. Take care.

]]> By: Ramesh http://www.RisingIMStar.com/mindset/the-day-i-lost-my-dad-my-inheritance-and-my-baby/#comment-4501 Ramesh Thu, 18 Sep 2008 12:12:53 +0000 http://www.RisingIMStar.com/mindset/the-day-i-lost-my-dad-my-inheritance-and-my-baby/#comment-4501 Hey bro! My heart goes out to you. Take time to heal k. Hey bro!

My heart goes out to you. Take time to heal k.

]]> By: Kelvin Loh Weng Lock http://www.RisingIMStar.com/mindset/the-day-i-lost-my-dad-my-inheritance-and-my-baby/#comment-4447 Kelvin Loh Weng Lock Tue, 02 Sep 2008 14:42:51 +0000 http://www.RisingIMStar.com/mindset/the-day-i-lost-my-dad-my-inheritance-and-my-baby/#comment-4447 Cherish only the good old memories and live the present no matter what lies ahead Kelvin, IMS Sept'07 batch Cherish only the good old memories and live the present no matter what lies ahead

Kelvin,
IMS Sept’07 batch

]]> By: Edmund Loh http://www.RisingIMStar.com/mindset/the-day-i-lost-my-dad-my-inheritance-and-my-baby/#comment-4431 Edmund Loh Fri, 29 Aug 2008 18:06:12 +0000 http://www.RisingIMStar.com/mindset/the-day-i-lost-my-dad-my-inheritance-and-my-baby/#comment-4431 Hey Ming Chern, Reading your story invoked something in me as well, in many areas. In fact, I can relate to many of which you've said, especially the part where your father was concurrently holding an active relationship with many other women. My father too, married 2 other women (maybe more?) and even though my mother discovered it years back when I was still going to primary school, my mother forgave him. However he took advantage of my mother's kind heart and committed more gross acts - looking for MORE women, cheating everyone, had a son with another woman, and massive lies. (Guess men like these have a lot in common?) Career wise, he was successful but due to his arrogance and womanizing habits (oh the lies too, don't forget that), everything came crumbling on him like a deck of cards. I'm glad me, my mom and sister are spared from sharing his misery. Last time I checked, he's driving a rented car instead of a Jaguar, lost most (if not all) of his business, all the women left him (some were innocently cheated)... and he's now lonely. Ironically, he now goes to church - the very thing he cursed when he was at his prime. Anyways I know you'll make it, Ming Chern. I personally think this is not going to solve itself overnight but tough men lasts, not tough times. :-) ===> YOU ARE THE TOUGH MAN!! Hey Ming Chern,

Reading your story invoked something in me as well, in many areas. In fact, I can relate to many of which you’ve said, especially the part where your father was concurrently holding an active relationship with many other women.

My father too, married 2 other women (maybe more?) and even though my mother discovered it years back when I was still going to primary school, my mother forgave him. However he took advantage of my mother’s kind heart and committed more gross acts - looking for MORE women, cheating everyone, had a son with another woman, and massive lies. (Guess men like these have a lot in common?)

Career wise, he was successful but due to his arrogance and womanizing habits (oh the lies too, don’t forget that), everything came crumbling on him like a deck of cards. I’m glad me, my mom and sister are spared from sharing his misery.

Last time I checked, he’s driving a rented car instead of a Jaguar, lost most (if not all) of his business, all the women left him (some were innocently cheated)… and he’s now lonely. Ironically, he now goes to church - the very thing he cursed when he was at his prime.

Anyways I know you’ll make it, Ming Chern. I personally think this is not going to solve itself overnight but tough men lasts, not tough times. :-)

===> YOU ARE THE TOUGH MAN!!

]]> By: Eileen http://www.RisingIMStar.com/mindset/the-day-i-lost-my-dad-my-inheritance-and-my-baby/#comment-4430 Eileen Fri, 29 Aug 2008 02:59:09 +0000 http://www.RisingIMStar.com/mindset/the-day-i-lost-my-dad-my-inheritance-and-my-baby/#comment-4430 There is a saying that before you can rise to success, you'll have to hit the rock bottom first. Survive through the worst and you'll be prepared to face anything that comes along in the future. I'm sure you can build a million dollar fortune with your own hands, jia you! Warmest Regards, Eileen There is a saying that before you can rise to success, you’ll have to hit the rock bottom first. Survive through the worst and you’ll be prepared to face anything that comes along in the future.

I’m sure you can build a million dollar fortune with your own hands, jia you!

Warmest Regards,
Eileen

]]> By: alwaysLovely http://www.RisingIMStar.com/mindset/the-day-i-lost-my-dad-my-inheritance-and-my-baby/#comment-4371 alwaysLovely Thu, 21 Aug 2008 15:53:31 +0000 http://www.RisingIMStar.com/mindset/the-day-i-lost-my-dad-my-inheritance-and-my-baby/#comment-4371 Tofu: All I have to say that I'm glad I read this post. I totally agree with you on several points. Doing what I love is important. Cheers. *We have a common thing:making differences* Tofu:

All I have to say that I’m glad I read this post. I totally agree with you on several points. Doing what I love is important.

Cheers.

*We have a common thing:making differences*

]]> By: Poh Heng http://www.RisingIMStar.com/mindset/the-day-i-lost-my-dad-my-inheritance-and-my-baby/#comment-4347 Poh Heng Mon, 18 Aug 2008 02:55:33 +0000 http://www.RisingIMStar.com/mindset/the-day-i-lost-my-dad-my-inheritance-and-my-baby/#comment-4347 Hi MC, So sorry to hear about the loss of your baby. Be strong and send our regards to your wife. I can fully understand your decision for more time with your family and i support that. Previously i was in a semiconductor company and was working like nobody's business, working overnight up to 4 days in a week. Though i was doing well at work, i hardly have time with my family. Life took a twist when my mum suffered a stroke, my grandfather-in-law passed away and a newborn baby came along when i realised i needed time for my family so i decided to quit. As life turns out, my grandmother passed away when i was serving my resignation notice and a month later, i lost my dad (heart attack). I keep blaming myself for being unable to spend more time with them and when i finally decided to, i lost them forever. This is life. After changing a job, i did have more time with my family but i was diagnosed with prediabetes and keep losing weight and even doctors cannot explain why. This is the reason why i ventured into IM so that i can spend even more time with my family. Therefore my advice to everyone is to take good care of your health and also spend time with your loved ones because life is always unpredictable. Hi MC,

So sorry to hear about the loss of your baby. Be strong and send our regards to your wife.

I can fully understand your decision for more time with your family and i support that.

Previously i was in a semiconductor company and was working like nobody’s business, working overnight up to 4 days in a week. Though i was doing well at work, i hardly have time with my family.

Life took a twist when my mum suffered a stroke, my grandfather-in-law passed away and a newborn baby came along when i realised i needed time for my family so i decided to quit.

As life turns out, my grandmother passed away when i was serving my resignation notice and a month later, i lost my dad (heart attack). I keep blaming myself for being unable to spend more time with them and when i finally decided to, i lost them forever. This is life.

After changing a job, i did have more time with my family but i was diagnosed with prediabetes and keep losing weight and even doctors cannot explain why. This is the reason why i ventured into IM so that i can spend even more time with my family.

Therefore my advice to everyone is to take good care of your health and also spend time with your loved ones because life is always unpredictable.

]]> By: Dylan Loh http://www.RisingIMStar.com/mindset/the-day-i-lost-my-dad-my-inheritance-and-my-baby/#comment-4338 Dylan Loh Sat, 16 Aug 2008 12:53:54 +0000 http://www.RisingIMStar.com/mindset/the-day-i-lost-my-dad-my-inheritance-and-my-baby/#comment-4338 lemme give you a big fat hug when I see you again :) lemme give you a big fat hug when I see you again :)

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