I received an email from someone that literally made me lose my sleep with anger, frustration and so much more negative feelings.
Yes, I’ve been thru POE Mod 1&2 and even coached POE Mod 1 before,
therefore I should be in better control of my feelings & state.
You see, I’ve always find it challenging to be in control of my emotions, especially when people come & challenge my beliefs and vision.
Many months ago, I’ve conversed with someone who began Internet Marketing at around June 2007. He was passionate and rather successful in his own day job. He came into Internet Marketing as an exploration on what Internet Marketing and how it can generate passive income for him.
I guess this is the same for a lot of people who began Internet Marketing. They started IM and have a distorted idea on what IM is and the strange thing is, no matter what happens, somehow this perspective doesn’t really change. Guess they need more of POE huh?
In anycase, as of all people starting something, the fire & passion & all the drive is there. Things like creating a PDF report can be so exciting, even though it is taking them like 5 hours to learn what PDF is. Nevertheless, it is still heart-warming for me to see them so excited and encouraged. At least they are improving.
But what happens when the novelty wears off? The initial excitement & drive just doesn’t sustain the pain & the steep learning curve anymore.
So what do these people do? They started to blame people. They blame people for the massive load of things to learn, blame people for the lack of resources, blame people for the lack of clarity.
Wow, this irks & surprises me many times. My life mentor, Jacklyn Ker has got to be the role model of soooo many people beginning Internet Marketing or ANYTHING, for that matter. Though she’s fraught with all the technical challenges, she didn’t give up. Instead, it was fuel for her to perserve on to clarify anything that she didn’t understand. So what happened in the end, she conquered her challenges and now, she can even coach IM people from a technical perspective. Isn’t this incredible what a little determination can do?
Coming back to losers in life and fast forwarding to now. Not long ago, I just received an email from this person at about 1am, detailing on why things could have been and should have been. The funny thing was how Law Of Attraction came into place. He seemed to attract all the people who didn’t make it in IM or began on a wrong foot in IM. He compiled a list of things on why IM wasn’t that fantastic, etc, etc…
From my observation throughout the months of emails and other modes of communication, I’ve always noticed how he treated confusion. At the first sight of confusion, his mind shut off and he would go off to sleep. This was surprising as he wasn’t employed, but runs his own thing earning his own keep. So I would naturally assume people who goes the entreprenueral route would be more empowered to take on challenges. Yes, he would sometimes tackle the lesser of all evils, but that’s about it.
In these eight months of working for Stuart and gone through so many Internet Marketing Academy, I’m beginning to learn that I should give my best to all the participants, but the rest is really up to them. We can only show them the door, but it is really for them to walk through it themselves.
I began this post with a troubled mind. Troubled and vexed in search of a solution, an answer to stop all these nonsense. But I realized that it isn’t possible. That’s the reason why only 5% of the population wins the race and the top 1% of the population gains super success. It is not my fault and it is not my mission to whip them into shape.
I can only support what I do best. Technical support! And I shall be the number one Internet Marketing Techincal Coach in the world! 
Stay close to my mission and my passion & I shall touch the life and hearts of more people to come.
Speaking of touching hearts, please be reminded that Stuart is also rolling out something that I believe is of incredible value. He’s running the Charity Telethon to raise a few hundred thousand dollars to fulfil the dreams of kids who’s life is about to end.
Please support these children in whatever ways you can. In this case, it’s only your name & email and a couple of dollars later to show that you care and to prove that there is still love in this world.
Go down to www.supertelethon.org for more details!
Cheers!
Ming Chern
